The Power Of Love- Harry & Megan's exit from the royal family

The past week has been tumultuous for Harry & Megan. The couple made an official step down from their royal duties. Their hope was to step down and still fulfill their royal duties. They weren't even going to accept public funds for their fulfillments. However the Queen decided that she would prefer that they step down all together. Which means that they:                                        
              - Won't use their HRH titles

              - They won't receive any public funds for royal duties

              - Harry won't have anymore military appointments

              - Neither will no longer represent the Queen

              - They have to repay the money for the renovations for their Frogmore Cottage

              - They will no longer receive money for security protection

WOW!!!! As we're learning this was NOT Harry's intention. He stated this at the Setenbale dinner in London this past Sunday night. Harry looked disheveled and stressed as he gave his speech. He stated "Our hope was to continue serving the queen, the commonwealth and my military associations, but without funding. Unfortunately, that wasn't possible." That statement is extremely telling because Harry appeared to be very proud to be a part of the armed forces. He completed 2 operational tours in Afghanistan. Prince Harry’s highest military profile title was as Captain General of the Royal Marines, a role he was handed by the Queen in December 2017, succeeding the Duke of Edinburgh. He was also an Honorary Air Force Commandant of the Royal Air Force Base Honington and honorary Commodore-in-Chief of The Royal Navy’s Small Ships and Diving Operations. (credited from the Telegraph, Robert Mendick).   

Harry will no longer be allowed to wear his dashing military uniform. He will only be allowed to wear his badges. He has given up all that he's known Royally in the name of love. Yes, it is clearly because of his love for Megan. He lived his life under the commonwealth, under his queen; The Commander in Chief all of his adult life. His problems with his family didn't begin until he made Megan his wife. These are facts. We can agree that he loved this lifestyle because he lived it for so long and didn't feel he needed to make a change until the conflicts began surrounding his wife. He and his brother William had a feud for 2 years allegedly over Prince William's disregard to Megan. This is why they bought the Frogmore Cottage because they allegedly didn't want to live close to William and Kate in Kensington Palace. 

When a man like Prince Harry gets married we expect that the woman who he marries makes him happy on all levels. In every aspect of his life. Is it right that since Megan has been a part of Harry's life she's contributed to all of this pain for him? This is not to suggest that she should just lay down and take the abuse. Instead she could've just dealt with it for a while. They've only been married for 2 years. It's common for family members to be indifferent to another members spouse. Couldn't she just have dealt with the issues instead of convincing her man to abandon his family and all that he knows? She certainly has a power over him. She's able to persuade him to make all of these life changes that are clearly very saddening to him.

H&M are going through some changes right now but I believe that they'll get through it. Nevertheless this is a true lesson about how powerful love is. But love's intentions should be made with good intentions. We can't make someone else happy if the result is our misery.

Until Next Time....
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